Guess Who?

January 28, 2009
Well today was a very interesting day after all, it seems it is hard to study while you are taking care of a baby, so I want to say to all the mothers who are attending school, going to work, and even who are just stay home mothers. Thank God for strong women like you. Because as a man, I thought I would be stronger then I first was when I had my very first child, you know the ego thing. I can do this, what is so hard about it. Well, I can truly say, it is hard, but at the same time it is interesting to as well, because you learn how to do two things at one time, you learn how to watch your baby, and work on keeping your study habits strong. You become more aware of your cognitive moments then ever before.

So women of today, you have my hat tip to you, never let no one tell you what you can or not achieve, for if you are able to raise a family, go to school, and go to work, pay the bills, and still have time to say Praise the Lord, you are one women I would marry in a minute if I wasn't married to a strong women already. So since I can not show all of you how much I appreciate the things that you are able to do, I decided to just show my wife, with a nice dinner, and dozen of rose's, with a stuff bear, that said Daddy love you too.

Now I can't say what took place later on that night, that is not for your ears, but I assure you love is one thing I enjoy sharing with my wife, so love marking is a more exciting thing we have between us. So men, stop always talking about how hard it is for you, and what you need to do and how you feel you should be treated, if you can vision what your women is doing on a daily bases, and think of the hard times she have just being your women, you will find it more objective to just say I love you on a regular base, anywhere, anytime and around everyone. For she truly deserve it. And I tell you if you show love, her love will be given unto you more deeply then you could have ever imagine. So that was how my day was like.

Other then that, I come to realize how God place my wife into my life. You know I use to wonder why she married me, or why would she put up with a man like me in the first place, especially how I use to be before I allow God into my life. But I tell you even when God wasn't first in my life, my wife made sure I was first in hers, and that made it more unique then any other relationships I have ever been in. I can tell you what verse in the Bible that inform you how to treat your wife, and how you should love her, take care of her and be the man she should respect and honor. And truthfully that should be common sense to all men of this world, but sadly it's not.

It takes us time to wake up and realize what we have in our lives, and some of us, wake up fast and get things in order, then there are those who lose out, but somehow manage to work their way back into her life. But there are those who sit back, and wish they had done right, and how they miss the very women that gave them true love.

But if you finally realize what type of man you should be and have faith in God, he will trust you again, and give you a women who would love you unconditionally. That is what happen to me, I lost my first love, because I wanted to be the man, but didn't know what it was to be a real man. But when I begin to learn, and understand the meaning of love, without expecting anything in return, God blessed me with a wife that is unbelievable. I tell you there are times, when I have to ask God what part of Christ did he make her from, for she hold close the spirit of the Lord, no matter what I say or do. God is first in her life which grants her the ability to love me as God has inform her to do, and when you can receive that type of love, you have no chose as a man of God, but to return that same love back to her.

You may ask do we argue at times? Yes we do. But we never go to bed mad at each other, and I can admit there has been times when we both have set up all night not talking to each other, but knowing that we can not go to bed with this anger. Funny when you think of it, because by the time we realize it is early in the morning, we have forgotten what we was arguing about, because we are so tired from being up all night not talking. We look at that as way for God to punish us for being evil. Believe it when God has ways to make you realize how foolish some of the things human do.

Well; I just want to let you know that my days are going well, I am really enjoying sharing these thoughts with those who do read them, and I hope to start receiving comments back, it would be a pleasure to answer a few questions. So until the next time, may the Lord continue to uplift you in the bond of true love and everlasting faith.
The Reverend